[Gpdd] CARE: Honoring K.C.

[Michelle Melaragno]

Dear Corrine & Michael,
	I can't begin to imagine what you must be going through right
now since losing K.C.  What you have described is not unlike parents
losing a child after months of critical and nursing care.  As David had
mentioned, I too find it difficult to even read about someone losing a
special furry friend, and I haven't responded often to those posts even
as I grieve for the ones gone and left behind.  I am inspired by your
account of what a typical day looks like for you folks.  Your dedication
to K.C. is a testament to your love for him and his for you.  He trusted
you so much, to care for his every need and want.  What a lucky boy!  No
doubt, in the weeks & months & years to come, you will catch a glimpse
of him somewhere in your house or at work.  For a moment, you will
forget that he has passed, and you will speak to him or stop what you
are doing to happily tend to him...only to feel a moment later, the
sadness of the realization that you must have been "seeing things".  You
weren't...he has come to make sure you are OK, and to let you know that
he is also.  I know this is hard and it will take some time to get
there, but concentrate on and cherish the first part of that
moment...when you thought he was really there!  You will smile and
remember him with happiness for the time you shared together...and
that's what he wants to see.  I share this because even 15 years after
he was euthanized, I sometimes still catch a glimpse of the dog I grew
up with...sitting on the porch of my parents' house when I pull into the
driveway.  I half expect him to get his 140 pounds of bulk up to greet
me...then I remember.  My cat Tyra presents herself quite often, in
another of my cats' mannerisms.  My horse Doc...she visits me in my
dreams, and we go for a ride or turn a barrel or two.  They are always
there...and they are OK.
	I know for some people it is excruciating to even think about
another pet at such a time.  I hope you know I mean no disrespect toward
you or K.C. with my next words.  I am struck with this overwhelming
feeling...what better way to honor K.C.'s life and love than to share
that with another deserving little soul?  You both have such an amazing
gift to share.  There are so many piggies out there that need homes such
as yours.  The healthy ones are hard enough to place, but the "special
needs" guys are even harder.  Most shelters don't have the resources to
even try.  You have so much love and compassion to share...and
some-piggie out there is looking for that.  You will know when the time
is right for you.

With love and light,
Michelle in Maine